If you feel heavy, you are not alone. In the past two weeks, America has been remembered – again, with a seriousness that is difficult to overdo it – that words have weight. They can heal. They can distribute. And sometimes they can even destroy.
The murder of Charlie Kirk has become more than one head; It is a tremor that every conversation goes through our nation, every thread on social media and every living room where politics is discussed. The reverb is everywhere: in the White House, where the reaction of the administration has been quickly and deeply personal; With memorials and wake; And in the hearts of those who admired Kirk or disagreed with him. The storm of grief, anger and fear will not disappear quickly.
It is easy to see why. For many, Kirk represented more than a movement – he was a voice that challenged, provoked and at best it said that disagreement is not a destruction. His dependence on Scripture anchored him in a little deeper than daily headlines. When the world felt chaotic, he turned to verses that millions were stabilized for him. “The words of the reckless pierce as swords, but the tongue of the wise brings healing.” (Proverbs 12:18 NIV) It was a call to make a fierce debate, but with respect – a challenge to listen as if you might be wrong.
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But in the aftermath of his death, opposing parties have drawn their own conclusions – some demanding accountability, others who are afraid of retaliation. The tragedy has not united us in mourning, but accelerated the split of our national seams.
Participants hold candles during a wake in Seattle for Turning Point USA founder Charlie Kirk, who was shot dead earlier that day while spoke at Utah Valley University. (David Ryder/Getty images)
Five trends, one gravity
If the past two weeks have been felt unusually dark, it is no wonder. They have strengthened some of the heaviest trends that we are confronted with as a country.
- First, political violence is back at levels that we have not seen since 1968. In the past 14 months we have seen two attempts about the life of Donald Trump, killing a democratic legislator and her husband in Minnesota, a arson on Pennsylvania Democrat Governor Josh Shapiro’s house and now Kirk’s Assassination. We arrange politics again with bullets.
- Secondly, shootings at school have become routine. From less than a dozen annually 20 years ago to more than 80 a year during the past three years, the pure frequency has invented our shock. The more normalized these tragedies become, the less they change us.
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- Thirdly, the murder in Charlotte of a young Ukrainian refugee – a woman who fled the war to be killed here – should have been a moment of shared grief. Instead, it became a political split screen again. The law pointed to the 14 earlier convictions of the murderer as proof of clementia on crime. The left accused the right of racism. A human life, full of promise, was reduced to talk points.
- Fourth, social media have converted indignation into currency. Calls for violence, even civil war, now openly trend. The Bible imprisoned these centuries ago: “They sharpen their tongue as swords and shake cruel words like deadly arrows.” (Psalm 64: 3 NIV) Nowadays our feeds are filled with arrows.
- Fifth, the dual reactions to Kirk’s death reveal how far we have disappeared. Some mocked and celebrated. Others looked for revenge, the ones who cheered. Both parties have recklessly pierced. “The words of the reckless pierce as swords, but the tongue of the wise brings healing.” (Proverbs 12:18 NIV) But reckless words dominate our public square.
None of this is sustainable. You can’t celebrate the murder of a man on the one hand and threaten the retribution on the other and expect healing. You cannot arm grief and expect no recoil.
What Scripture invites us to consider
The best moments of Charlie Kirk were not his best retorts, but his willingness to openly debate, even in hostile rooms. He put out of Scripture not to distribute himself, but to anchor. We do not struggle against flesh and blood, but against the cosmic forces over this current darkness. (Ephesians 6:12) For Kirk, the real battle was not against each other, but against the forces that would pull us apart.
Candles and flowers are seen near a portrait of right -wing activist Charlie Kirk in an improvised monument during a candlelight vigil in Memorial Park in Provo, Utah, 12 September 2025. (Melissa Majchrzak/AFP via Getty images)
The Bible is clear: “Do not take revenge, my dear friends … It is mine to avenge; I will pay back,” says the Lord. (Romans 12:19 NIV) Grace and forgiveness are not weaknesses – they are the only things that can break the cycle of complaints and retribution.
The challenge for all of us
It is easy – on both sides – to mock, to peek, to double anger. It is more difficult to listen, to debate without dehumanizing, to choose reluctance when it feels the least.
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But that is the only way ahead. “Don’t be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.” (Romans 12:21 NIV) We don’t have to mirror each other’s anger or bitterness. We can guard our mind, set limits with grace and refuse to have someone else’s darkness define our reaction.
If you feel overwhelmed, it is understandable. The words that swallow around us are heavy, often toxic. But the Scripture – and the best of our social tradition – offers an alternative: be quick to listen, to speak slowly, slow to get angry. (James 1: 19-20) Kindness and compassion are not naive; They are needed.
The big whole
Words don’t just describe our world; They form it. They can set a room on fire, or they can bring a certain degree of peace. At the moment too many words deepen the gap and set up the commitment.
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We all have a choice. We can continue to use words like weapons, or we can use them to build bridges, even about the most difficult gap. If we choose grace above grievances, forgiveness over revenge and truth that is spoken in love about lies that are screaming in anger, words may still be able to save us – if we just leave them.
Wherever you are, perhaps the real invitation is currently to go beyond the headlines and hashtags – to recognize the weight that our words wear and to choose them with care. In this we may not only find a way to move forward, but a way to heal.
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